@Canadimon (Robert) - I have not been A/N yet but if you read the post in the A/N section you can see that the overwhelming ideals of the A/N experience is that you just go and try it. No one will care what you look like. The experience is for you to enjoy whether you are socializing with others or not. As you can see by the other posts, body type is not a factor in enjoying the experience. If it was then I would also have to exclude myself when i go down there.
Just go and have a good time and forget about what you or your wife looks like. I suggest reading some of the other threads as they will reinforce what i just said. Plus you will get to know the etiquette/rules.
Jon & Heather
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Making arrangements for February 2012!