We tried the c/o at the s resort in mobay and it was not what we thought it could be. C/o is not a good thing. Too many people walking through just to catch a glimpse which made my wife very uncomfortable and I just got tired of it. She never went past topless and even though I loved the freedom and went optional every day there were many more clothed there than not. Her response to me was if everybody was doing it I would be ok. So we are going to CSS in July. Now the next phase: She has lost a great deal of weight and has the excess skin to prove it as well as a c section scar from our two beautiful children. We both are still plump and she doesn't see herself the way I see her. I have read the posts here and I understand it is a non issue after the experience, but we are on the front side of that. We both swim in our own pool nude, but it is just hard for her to move to the public thing. I am looking forward to this trip and would love some help for her. I know what is said here and I really want a positive experience for her so that she understands she is beautiful beyond my opinion.
We did find out some things about ourselves this summer, I am neither an exhibitionist nor prone to be a voyeur. I just love the freedom of being nude. I felt like I finally was just me with nothing to hide, cover, or be ashamed of. She has no problem being nude in a non judgmental environment (with me). In fact she loves it. We both love the beach, love to be nekkid and love each other. I will be asking her to read this and told her I was posting. I canít wait to meet you all, you sound like my kind of folks