Reactions to "Excited" Guys

**KerryBerry** · December 7th, 2009, 01:42 AM

Hey, everyone! Me and my bf are considering visiting SSB while at CSS. My bf gets aroused when he sees me naked (even though we've been together for 5+ years) and, its definitely possible that he could get aroused at various times while we are at SSB.

Is this offensive to others, or does everyone regard it as a natural occurence? I've checked other AN sites and have heard mixed opinions. Should he hide his "excitement" to make others more comfortable?

**steverandlinda** · December 7th, 2009, 08:53 AM

i would not tell too many of the ladies about this dynamic as it may cause some jealousy in the ranks lol

**Lovjamaica** · December 7th, 2009, 09:06 AM

A quick jump into the pool will probably take care of it.

I've been visiting the Couples AN beaches for years now and have never seen it happen but I imagine it does from time to time.

Men are men and we realize some of them have no self control so I think most people would not pay much attention to it.

**jamaican_junkie** · December 7th, 2009, 10:04 AM

Answers to questions in the order given...
could be,
likely,
definitely yes.

**Barren** · December 7th, 2009, 03:06 PM

I doubt it will happen to him in that situation. I seem to get excited at the drop of a hat, especially if my girl is nekkid too.. but I had no issues while AN at CTI.

**Sandan** · December 7th, 2009, 03:23 PM

KerryBerry, I've been married to my beautiful wife for 10 years, together for 14 and I too have the same tendancy. Our first time going A/N I was pretty nervous that this would happen but once we got there it really was not a problem.

My first bit of advise would be, have some 'fun' in your room before going to the A/N beach. My second bit of advise would be, have some 'fun' after going to the A/N beach. My third bit of advise, put sunblock on before you leave your room. It is really difficult to explain until you have been there, done that, but its a very relaxed atmosphere so a lot of that built up tension goes away relatively quickly. At least it did for me.

If it does happen, I wouldn't recommend walking around talking to people (not that he would, but I've heard its happened, and made people uncomfortable). Roll over, if he's on a chair, swim around a bit if in the pool. Its natural for it to happen (under the right context) but not so natural to share it with an entire beach. He'll be fine, enjoy SSB and try to go early in the trip. If you like it you can stay there all week, if not, you can at least say you tried it.

**krazykeith** · December 7th, 2009, 11:18 PM

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it. If it happens, just use the ocean to cool down. It probably won't. It's different. Try it and see.

**Lindz** · December 8th, 2009, 04:18 PM

My husband was so worried about this as well. But for different reasons, you see we went to CN to get married. We decided to stop having "sexy time" about 3 months prior to our wedding day b/c we lived together and wanted it to be a fun, and excited wedding night. Well the problem was we were at the resort for 2 days before the wedding. We kindly explained to friends on the AN side the situation and they all understood completely. Although he never had an issue with anything popping up.

The guys thought it was extremely cruel of me to test his limits in such a way. haha Go and you'll see, everything will be irie mon! Have a blast!

**kycouple** · December 8th, 2009, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by steverandlinda

i would not tell too many of the ladies about this dynamic as it may cause some jealousy in the ranks lol

I can't resist, some of us "older" guys might be jealous also.

**Marcusand Debi** · January 31st, 2010, 07:13 PM

My wife and one of the other girls thought i'd be fun to tease me into a state of excitement in the island pool at CTI - I just sat on the edge of the pool and hung my hat on it!!

I'd say my reaction brought the house down and meant I wasn't able to keep my hat in position too long!

**Northern Nurse** · January 4th, 2011, 06:30 PM

I have been going to AN beaches for years, since I was 15 and have never had that problem. It simply is not the environment for it. If you are still concerned then I would say that you "ease springs" so that he does not get sprung on the beach. But saying that, he may have sex more on his mind if you do this just before you get to the beach.

If it does happen then it is time for him to go for a dip before he goes to full mast or flip over and tan his back.

Either way, overt errections are not acceptable in this environment....or you could go to H3 for a day.

**Tim-n-Lisa** · January 5th, 2011, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by Marcusand Debi

My wife and one of the other girls thought i'd be fun to tease me into a state of excitement in the island pool at CTI - I just sat on the edge of the pool and hung my hat on it!!

I'd say my reaction brought the house down and meant I wasn't able to keep my hat in position too long!

This sounds more like a bad Cinemax movie!!!

**jhs** · January 6th, 2011, 10:26 AM

Oh great! So I'm going to be like a piece of bread going into a broken toaster with just one side of me done and the other side white coming out. Lol! Well at least my back will get a good tan.

**Northern Nurse** · January 7th, 2011, 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by jhs

Oh great! So I'm going to be like a piece of bread going into a broken toaster with just one side of me done and the other side white coming out. Lol! Well at least my back will get a good tan.

No you will not because it will not happen. I have been going to nude beaches since I was 15 and lets face it, at 15 a guy will get excited at the drop of a hat! The fact is that there is nothing sexual about the AU experance, it is about being free of textiles, socializing, having fun and getting an all over tan.

**Shari and James** · January 31st, 2011, 10:51 PM

Been to Sunset Beach and Tower Island many times and have never seen an aroused guy. It isn't happening or they are hiding it well. No worries he'll be just fine.

**golferhhi** · February 5th, 2011, 07:02 AM

All are correct that around groups of people by the pool or bar it will most likely not happen. However it did happen to me sitting on beach chair down under tree by the beach. My wife was walking up from the beach toward me and just seeing how beautiful and sexy she looked walking did arouse me. Sorry those feelings you cannot mask. So I brought my knees up and held my thighs together to hide my "emotion". Nobody saw a thing. If being on a nude beach with your wife doesn't bring just a ting of sensuality once or twice, then you probably had too much rum. It will not happen often but could if you are away from others.

**sunnydayz** · March 14th, 2011, 07:54 AM

It has happened. Really if you are lying in your chair it is not a big deal as it is a natural occurrence. Just sleeping or enjoying the sun and something can pop up. Walking around like that would be weird but sitting with your special someone there is nothing to worry about.