My husband and I are on our third trip to CSS. On a previous trip (2007) we celebrated a family wedding where 5 other couples joined the bride and groom (my son). The bride posted a question on the board about wedding wear and then at the end of the message said she was excited to be coming to Jamaica although she never dreamed she'd be getting married there someday. She received 2 really helpful replies and two uncalled for replies to the tune of "do you think you are too good to be married in Jamaica? If so by all means go somewhere else. WE appreciate Jamaica." Well not very many brides grow up planning to wed in a foreign country so most readers understood her meaning. We checked other posts by the two rude folks (one was female and one was male) and quite frankly, they replied to lots of questions and were sarcastic and elitist to others too. None of us have ever posted since then although many read the MB. (BTW, the wedding was as wonderful as we expected!)
However, I believe there are many like us who enjoy reading the board, but don't post. And yes....one of the two still posts now and then. But nothing or no on will ever be able to take away our love of Jamaica, its wonderful people, and especially the peace and serenity that we find at the Sans Souci...that is why we encouraged our son and now daughter-in-law to get married there.