Thanks to everyone for the replies. I expected mixed results and thats what I got. I plan to wait until the baby is born to book anything. I want to make sure he/she is healthy and my wife is as well before we start planning that. I dont worry about the grandparents watching them, as they are begging to do so already. I just want to make sure it feels right (more so the wife than me) before we plan anything. Im sure we will try some weekend getaways first to see how that goes. But with skype and technology I think we will be fine away from the baby for 5-7 days in Jamaica. I agree that if you wait too long the baby may miss you more and realize you are gone. Breast feeding may be the biggest obstacle but with my wife going back to work I doubt that lasts up to 10 months anyway.
And there is no way my wife will go to Jamaica pregnant. We LIKE to drink and have fun at the beach. She will not enjoy watching me sit at the swim up bar while she sips on water and fruity non alcoholic drinks. If youre gonna pay for a trip like that you better be able to get your moneys worth. I couldnt pay for an all inclusive and not drink. Thats a waste of money.
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