I know how you feel....Mistake or not?
I can completely relate to how you are feeling! After several weeks of searching for our "perfect" vacation my Husband and I decided on Couples TI. It was the very first one we looked at and no matter where else we looked my heart always said TI. We booked our vacation in March of 2011 for January of 2012. It is our very first vacation and will be the only vacation for a long time so we wanted to do it right. My Husband will be having spinal surgery in November so even after 7 weeks for recovery he still will be limited in activity. All he wanted was to be able to relax in a Hammock on the beach. UNTIL....I find out there is no hammocks at TI! NO Hammocks at TI! Have you heard of anything so odd? Since we found that out we have been second guessing ourselves for choosing TI. What kind of resort don't have Hammocks?
Never the less, we decided to stay with TI. I like the private beach idea, the smallness of it, and im not crazy about the Hotel feel....but I am used to staying in hotels in US so it wont bother me.
My thoughts....we chose TI for a reason if we change to another we will never know what we are missing.
Happy travels to you. Happy Anniversary.