It's as 'right' as you make it...
If you really want to go to CN, then simply decide to, and go. My wife and I went last September and are returning next June, and we are not 'prude'. We spent our week there sunning on the AN beach, enjoying the warm Caribbean, hitting the hot tub immediately out of the sea, ordering a drink, and doing it over and over again. We mingled and enjoyed meeting others of the same ilk, as in nude sun bathers, as we chose. In-between we spent our private time doing what the entire setting promotes: being romantic; with each other. So, if being naked in public, drinking most of each day, enjoying the local food and products, and being romantic with the 'one who brung ya' the rest of the time is being prude, then sign us up. Places like Hedo, Hedo2, etc., are enticing, but there's nothing to do there that you can't do at CN. Being respectful of others is not being prude. As a matter of fact, respect is a basic tenet of the wonderful Jamaican culture and practiced like few places we've been to.
If you maintain asking if CN is 'right' for you, maybe it's not.