So each year my wife and I take vacation around Thanksgiving. We have been to Europe for touristy vacations and last year I surprised her with a trip to Mexico for a long weekend.

This year we started looking around because we loved Mexico and since we took a shortened honeymoon and never had the romantic one we wanted we thought. Let's go for a week, but with the panic about H1N1 we looked around and people suggest Jamaica.

We asked about adult only resorts and do you know what happens when you Google that...Lets just say if I wanted to spend a week naked or spending intimate time with anyone other than my wife I have a list.

My cousin recommended Couple as opposed to the flipflop or S3cret one. She said she has heard better things about Couples and the beaches are nice, the resort more relaxed, and people will leave you alone if you want or you can be a part of as much as you want.

So we are headed to the Island to spend 8 days from Nov 24 - Dec 1. Hope to learn a lot before we go and get to know some great people. My wife is a little less outgoing than I am, but she warms up.