I've read so many threads where the female in the couple was reluctant but the male was all ready and set to go and needed to convince her. I've yet to read one where it's the opposite. Why do you think that is? It's certainly not been my experience.
Don't get me wrong, my partner and I are both as eager as you can be for the AN experience. We loved our first time at CTI and can't wait to get back. But I'm a widow and my husband of 13 years who died would NEVER have done AN. I think it was a combination of his being more conservative, plus his fear of other guys gawking at his wife. I guess for that reason, until I came here, I always thought either guys would be more reluctant or else it would be at least 50/50.
In a related note, there were no same sex couples when we were there. Are there ever?