For you ladies out there I need some help please.

1. What type of dress did you wear? I'm considering a tropical long blue dress that I saw at Davids Bridal.
2. What did your husband wear? Have any of them worn shorts and a nice button shirt?
3. Did you upgrade your bouqet?
4. What type of cake did you use and was it good?
5. Did anyone have anything different from the sparkling wine and if so, what?
6. What type of gift did you give the on-site wedding coordinator?

I know this is a lot of questions but I really need your help--we are planning our 40th Vow Renewal. Thank you so much in advance.