My beautiful wife and I will be going to CN for the first time June 14-21. Please give me some advice on a few things.

1. What is the typical attire at night.
2. We will be celebrating her 50th bday and our 30th anniv while we are there, is there anything the resort typically does to celebrate it or is there something special we should ask for.
3. I would like to do the candlelite dinner on the beach for her birthday, is it worth doing.

That's all I have for now. We are already counting down the days. Hope to meet you there.

Travis & Kelly