Hello there!

We are planning a trip to Jamaica for May 2014 and this will be the second trip for my husband and myself( our first was to S, 2 years ago). this however will be the first trip for the other 2 couples going with us. this will be a first time to Couples for all of us and we are soooo excited!!!
We are all in our early 30's and have children so this trip will be a nice get away from reality.
here are some of the things about us that may be able to help.
We enjoy a nice beach that has a good place to swim or lay our on. With or without vendors as I'm sure the vendors kinda make things interesting!
Nice rooms. Doesn't have to be super fancy but something that will feel homey
Nice pool with a swim up bar is a total must as the boys will be spending most of their time there
Romantic vibe but not secluded
fun things to do off the resort. let me be a little more specific here as we are looking for more than just a waterfall.
we are wanting something fun that will get us to see the real Jamaica!
good food with plenty of variety
place that offers some sort of a nightlife after dark( yes we still enjoy a good party or two now and then!)

I think that about sums it up!
Thanks for the help