hi, can anyone help me with regards to couples negril and couples swept away. i cant decide between either resort as they both seem to tick the boxes but for different reasons

couples Negril seems to have nicer rooms and the beach looks lovely. the downside seems to be that the beach is public and is therefore very crowded

couples san souci seems to have lovely surroundings and looks a lot more uncrowded but the beach doesnt look half as nice and the rooms look like dated.

i really wanted somewhere that is relaxing, romantic, uncrowded but has the lovely beach and nice rooms. any ideas?

thanks
stephen