Have seen several mention about the private candlelit dinner here and while I understand the romantic side of a dinner for two, I was wondering why others feel it's worth the splurge since it seems at first glance as if it's similar to what we could do in our room by ordering room service and sitting on our porch.

If we do this, do we choose from a menu or do they have just certain things that are part of the dinner (my husband isn't much into seafood, so it wouldn't be a hit if the food was primarily seafood).