1.) Yes, put your five songs on the CD in the order you want them to be played on the DVD. Make sure you bring a second CD to give to the wedding coordinator to play at your wedding.
2.) She arrived at my room about around 9:00am and she and Richard started taking photos instantly. Ones of me getting ready, my maid of honor helping me put my dress and jewelry on, shots of me on the balcony all dressed, etc.
3.) We went with the flow but several times through out the shoot, my husband and I would be talking or doing something and Richard would say, "I like that...do that again" or "hold that right there, that looks good." It had a very easy and natural feel to it. I LOVED my photos as did everyone else. They're very flexible and want you to feel comfortable, trust me you'll love it!