I will be married in May at CSA. Since I have started planning my wedding I have been on the message boards faithfully everyday 2-3 times. When I get to work the first thing I do is log onto this board. My fiance refuses to come on this MB, he thinks once we arrive at the resort there will be no element of surprise since I've looked at pictures and read up on everything from rooms, weddings, the beach, restaurants etc. Did any newbies to couples maybe do a little to much research before arriving? Were you still surprised at anything when you finally arrived or not because you did so much research? Am I taking some of the fun out of our trip? I'm honestly starting to become a coupleholic.