Could someone give me an idea of how formal the Friday? night Gala is and how informal the Tuesday? beach party is. Do I have the days right? From the few bits I've read a sundress and nice low-heel (on lawn, correct?) sandals would be appropriate for the Gala and then casual-down to shorts, tank top and flip flops (women) and shorts & tee (men) for the beach party. Correct me if wrong. Thanks.